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Crichton can feel those lovely eyes watching and he's fighting the urge not to curl in on himself. It's still a shocking novelty to have said he told a man he loved him and have the reaction be so... casual. It feels like a big deal. Should be a really big deal.

"Where's my head? Sometimes even I don't know." Still attached today, so there's that.

"We talked about things in our past, I told him uh... the broad strokes of what Grayza did to me... We sort of tripped into that one mid make-out session so..." Oh god, did he just admit that out loud. His hands fly up to cover his face.

"We're giving the boyfriend thing a shot," he adds, muffled behind his hands.

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"You seem to be having a lot of feelings about that, Crichton. Something like fear, maybe? Embarrassment? You wanna unpack any of that? You know I, of all people, can't fucking judge you the least bit for liking a guy."

There's a warm humor tinting that last sentence, as Bash busies himself with his coffee so he's not doing a stare or anything when those hands come down.

cw: internalized homophobia

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Dammit. Why is Bash so good at reading him like this? (Because he's being very obvious about it, duh.)

"It's not that I'm worried you're going to judge me. I'm upset with myself that I... can't..." Nope, the hands have to stay up. He can only say this from behind a shield. "Everyone else makes it look so easy. And I'm not bothered by you or Jeff so why... why am I bothered by myself? Why does it still feel a little bit like I'm doing something wrong, even though I do love him?"

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"Actual question, or is that rhetorical? Like, I can dig it either way, but I don't wanna break it all down to you if you're not up for that kind of conversation today." Bash shifts so he can prod lightly at Crichton's side with a foot, clearly not upset hearing it.

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Is he actually asking? He thinks about it a little before answering. Yeah. Okay. Maybe he really is. He has to do something about this because it's not fair to Arthur.

Finally, he brings his hands back down, pretending it's so he can go for another sip of coffee. Hiding from his feelings? Him?? No, there's no reason why that prod with a foot make him want to die inside from shame all over again; surely not.

"Actual question. How do I get this to stop feeling awkward?"

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"Right. First two steps sound easier than they are. I know they're not so simple as I'm about to make them sound."

He holds up a finger. "One, you throw away the rulebook, the mental script that says 'guys go with girls, girls go with guys'. You're already in the process there, by your own admission. Me and Jeff don't bug you, and I bet you're fine with the guys planning a wedding coming up. But you need to really completely internalize that, recognize that what your world saw as 'normal' was just 'common.'"

Finger number two. "Then you gotta untangle your previous view of your sexuality from your selfhood. It's not that you're a different person, you just learned a thing about yourself. John Crichton is capable of loving guys, and he's still the same person he was before. Still as brilliant, still as vibrant, still as manly. Nothing about who you are has shifted substantially here."

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He sucks in a steadying breath and hunkers down to really listen. Still, he finds himself having to bat down kneejerk reactions to what he's being told. Right. Not easy. Throwing the rulebook away is something he's already gotten a head-start on but some things are just hard to let go of. Especially when he's been clinging to parts of the past as a security blanket to cope with all the strange encounters he's been living through. But he can do this.

It's the second point that's harder. Bash is clever, laying into his ego with those compliments to smooth the moment down. Doesn't quite stop him from feeling... stupid? Is that what he's feeling? That it took him into his thirties to learn something that seems like it should have been so basic about himself.

He counts to five, lets the breath out slowly. Nods to show he was listening and just needs a moment to mull this over.

Finally, "I just... can't believe it's taken me this long to get a clue. I went through a lot of changes already, since I got to Moya, since I got here I just..." He makes a frustrated noise. "It's never really done, is it? The learning curve goes up and up."

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"And sometimes, the beliefs we have about ourselves are chunky things that get stuck in our throat and feel like 'oh no, this is here forever now, just going to die about it'. Right? But here's the thing: the opportunity to learn more about yourself and grow, that's one of the coolest fucking things about being alive. You know? Today, you know you can be into guys, or at least that one guy. Tomorrow you might find a type of music you like, or a food you hate. I know, different scale of discovery, but still meaningful. Still something that lets you go 'I'm alive and I am living.' Ghosts can't change, you know. One of the saddest things about them, they're ghosts because they get stuck somewhere along the way."

That's not in any way metaphor, that's actually just his experience of ghosts in his world. And maybe, maybe the ship ghosts too, he's not 100% sure yet.

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A breathy laugh comes out of him despite the misery. Bash really has a way with words. He knows that, doesn't he?

"That does put it in perspective for me..." Everyone always said Crichton was the optimist. Bash is putting him to shame. "You're right. And... thank you. For hearing me out and helping me get my head on straight. I feel like I keep leaning on you a lot for that."

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"Well, I gotta be good for something beside my dick, right?" And that joke comes out easy, so very easy, like it's just something to take for granted. Bash knows he isn't smart, he knows he's not a strategist or thinker, so he can at least be kind and hope that's enough.

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"I'm not doubting that's good..." Crichton answers with a flush creeping up his neck, "but you got more going for you than that, dude. You're not just a pretty face."

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"Well. I'm pretty okay at the parts of the demigod thing that don't involve fighting." A pause, his smile dropping off his face. "After Halloween, maybe I am good at some of the fighting shit, too, but I don't wanna be known for that."

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Crichton shifts a little closer, until their shoulders can touch, debating if he should go full hug yet because hearing Bash talk about fighting on Halloween, knowing how Bash feels about resorting to violence, that's heart breaking.

"That's not the first thing I think of when I think about you. Not even the demigod part. That's important, yeah, but what I know you for best is how good you are at talking to people. You're insightful. You always sound wiser than your years. I never feel like you're going to...I don't know, make me feel worse about myself when I share with you. I value that about you. You know that?"

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Sorry, Crichton, initiating touch like that is how you get to be the one hugged on, with a deep, heavy sigh.

"You're not just saying that to flatter me?"

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Oh no, what a terrible fate. Now Bash is going to get hugged back. The horror.

"I'm really not. I mean it. And, hell, if not for your advice Arthur and I might still be awkwardly dancing around our feelings for each other. You're the one who kicked me in the ass about talking to him."

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"I mean, someone was bound to do that at some point. Right?" He lets out a bit of a nervous laugh, because oh no, he is being Perceived.

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"For someone as good at giving out compliments, you're really bad at taking them yourself." Crichton playfully knocks his knuckles against Bash's arm. "You're good with people. Own it, dude."

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"Maybe that's why I'm so good at giving them." It's a bit of a quip, but it's followed up by a bit of a sigh. "I'm just not used to being able to do much of nothing right, man."

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He almost wants to quip back, but the sigh makes him reconsider. "Hey, now. What do you think you're getting wrong?"

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"I'm a high school dropout who worked as a cab driver. I can barely read or write, and I'm a pacifist so I'm mostly useless in fights. All I got is a pretty face and a kind heart, so I gotta make the absolute best I got out of those."

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"Yeah? Well, I'm an astronaut with a Ph.D. in astrophysics, dude, and who's coming to who for advice right now?" Space has served Crichton just enough humble pie by now that he no longer feels like those extra years in college are something to brag about.

"You really gotta stop selling yourself short. You make a hell of a cup of coffee too, you know. And you make one hell of a good friend. I don't remember taking any lessons on that in college."

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"Mmph." Bash buries his face into Crichton's shoulder for a moment. "They oughta teach coffee in college, then kids wouldn't have to live on energy drinks during finals week." But there's a little laughter underneath.

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"You know, I don't disagree with you there." He wraps his arm around Bash to lightly pat him on the back. Bash's laughter is joined by a chuckle from him too.

"You'd be the best professor for the job. Hands down. They'd have a waiting list just to get in."